Is My Wife Messing With Me?

I do the majority of the cooking in our house. So I like things to be put back in the drawers and cabinets that they are supposed to be in. That way when I need it, I know where it is and don't have to go on the hunt for it. Debra can't seem to figure that out. She puts stuff away in different places all the time. I'll ask her why did you put those there and she never really has a good answer. I honestly think she may be doing it on purpose just to mess with me. Last night I opened up our spice cabinet and found our parmesan cheese in there! Its been opened, so we always keep it in the fridge. Why would it ever go in the spice cabinet. Is it a spice? Of course not! It makes me crazy.