This is how a good silent war is done!  Eddie and I talk about this all the time.  We will get in little silent battles with our spouses.  You know when you say don't like where your spouse has put something so instead of telling them you just move it to another spot.  Then a few days later you notice it moved back.  So you then move it again.  This could go on for years!  Here is an amazing silent war between strangers.............